red flags

“It's not a red flag." And yet you keep all the issues and the fights to yourself because you just know it will paint a bad picture of him. And you only use your best colours for his portrait.

"He didn't mean it in a bad way." You tell yourself after he casually says that dating you can be emasculating. On good days, he says your child-like enthusiasm is endearing. But he finds it annoying when you get too excited about the things you're passionate about. He finds your optimism unrealistic. But when you tell him about your bad days, he tells you it's because of your negative mindset. You're too clingy when you want to spend more time with him alone. But he’s threatened by how independent you are and how you can still have so much fun without him. He finds you and the way you make so many plans for your future together overwhelming. And yet, you're not enough to see a future with.

"I swear that this is the last time." And yet, it has happened over and over again that when he 'apologizes', the first thing you feel is doubt.

'red flags' is for the sad girls who have chosen to be color blind.

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